I’ve always been one to look for the magic in life—those moments that sparkle and shine with the simple beauty that’s present all around us. I’m a romantic at heart, always searching for the beauty present in every day. To be clear, this perspective isn’t toxic positivity. Instead, it’s a quality of observation. Romanticizing your life, though it’s become a social media trend, is largely centered around finding joy, love, and peace within yourself. It’s the process of structuring not only your days and routines, but how you see the world so that you’re always putting yourself in the path of beauty. And what better time of year to begin practicing that than spring?
With the colder weather (mostly) behind us, it’s time to start celebrating the color, warmth, and vibrancy that come with the transition from winter to spring. I rounded up 50 of my favorite ways to romanticize your life this season below. Keep reading to learn how you can make the most of spring and start soaking up the energy of every day.
- Craft a "morning moment." Embrace the magic of your morning ritual. Prepare your favorite beverage, light a cherished candle, and spend a few minutes with a new book. It's a far better alternative to rushing out the door, wouldn't you agree?
- Consider curating your dream morning routine. Sure, you could draw inspiration from social media influencers, or you could tailor it to your unique preferences. What activities would bring you joy before diving into the workday? Prioritize those instead of adhering to a morning routine you think you should have.
- Transition your wardrobe for spring. This isn't just about adapting to the season; it's a way to infuse romance into your life. Think: Airier fabrics, bolder hues, and luxurious materials like linen, cotton, and denim. Whether you lean towards coastal charm or Nancy Meyers sophistication, there's something about dressing for spring that exudes comfort, elegance, and romance.
- Refresh your mood board. While some people create annual vision boards, I prefer letting mine evolve with the seasons. Besides, those New Year's resolutions might have slipped your mind by now; it's the perfect opportunity to realign your intentions. Whether you're clipping images from magazines or finding inspiration on Pinterest to create a digital collage on Canva, let your creativity flow.
- Establish a joy jar. Each week, jot down one positive experience from the past seven days on a slip of paper. Place it in a jar, and at the end of the season, revisit each note and reflect on the abundance of joy the season brought.
- Dedicate quality time to yourself. Some may call it "dating yourself," while others might embrace the notion of being the protagonist of their own story. Designate a weekend morning, a spontaneous afternoon, or an entire day to deepen your self-awareness. Treat yourself to coffee, dine alone, or plan a day filled with your favorite activities. Remember: you can pamper yourself, too.
- Treat yourself to flowers. Following Miley's advice—don't wait for someone else to indulge you with your favorite blooms like peonies or ranunculus. Head to the nearest florist, pick out a few bouquets, and arrange them yourself. After all, nobody knows your preferences better than you do.
- Kickstart an herb garden. With plenty of resources available online, you can easily embark on this journey. The best part? You can start small or go big, depending on the space you have. (Well, the absolute best part is garnishing your dishes with freshly picked herbs.)
- Pen handwritten letters. There's something utterly romantic about composing love letters and expressions of gratitude to friends and family. It instantly transports me to the world of period dramas—a sentiment shared by many Bridgerton enthusiasts.
- Embrace the fancy stuff. That bottle of wine you've been saving? The china passed down from your grandmother? The dress reserved for special occasions? Don't wait for the perfect moment—it's now.
- Freshen up your tech backgrounds with inspiring imagery.
- Set the ambiance for a midweek dinner. Dim the lights, cue up your favorite playlist, and prepare a meal just for yourself.
- Disconnect from technology. Allocate an hour each day or a whole day every week to unplug from social media, emails, and your phone altogether.
- Embark on aimless drives. Isn't there something therapeutic about taking spontaneous drives with no particular destination in mind?
- Upgrade your loungewear. Bid farewell to your high school soccer shirt and invest in quality sleepwear. It doesn’t have to break the bank, but it can elevate your comfort.
- Prioritize self-connection. Before reaching for your phone or engaging with others in the morning, take a moment to center yourself. Whether through journaling, meditation, or simply enjoying the silence, prioritize your inner peace.
- Revamp your intimate life. Bid adieu to routines that feel stale or uninspired and introduce something new that focuses entirely on your pleasure.
- Delve into astrology, human design, or any other spiritual practice that resonates with you. These disciplines can serve as a guiding light, reminding us of the cosmic forces that support our journey.
- Undertake a life cleanse challenge. While initially intended for the entire month of March, you can embark on it at any time. The goal is to let go of what no longer serves you and welcome in what does.
- Shop for ingredients at a specialty grocery store and create a meal inspired by your finds.
- Curate your nightstand to reflect tranquility and elegance.
- Transform your junk drawer into a wellness sanctuary. Clear out the clutter and replace it with your favorite wellness essentials: supplements, affirmation cards, journals, and more.
- Elevate your coffee or tea game by exploring different brewing methods and flavors.
- Ensure all your travel documents are up to date, especially if you have plans for spring or summer vacations.
- Elevate your afternoon snack to a tea time affair with cucumber sandwiches and other delightful treats.
- Prioritize your pleasure—every day, if you wish.
- Infuse your water with refreshing flavors like citrus slices, cucumbers, or berries.
- Declutter your phone by deleting unused apps and subscriptions to enhance your digital experience.
- Add a new plant to your living space to bring in a touch of greenery.
- Cultivate positive self-talk by incorporating affirmations into your daily routine.
- Find a form of movement that resonates with you, whether it's a leisurely stroll, a game of frisbee in the park, or a gentle workout.
- Embrace single-tasking and savor the joy of focusing on one thing at a time.
- Take a proper lunch break away from your desk and devices.
- Discover your signature scent by experimenting with different perfumes or fragrances.
- Practice seeing hearts in everyday objects, from child-drawn crafts to sidewalk chalk art.
- Reconnect with activities that brought you joy as a child.
- Soak up sunlight first thing in the morning to set your circadian rhythm and boost your energy levels.
- Curate a mood-boosting playlist filled with your favorite tunes.
- Create content for yourself, whether it's through social media or personal projects that capture the essence of your life